So I have a homegirl that I'm cool with and is having a hard time finding a man. She is always saying that there are no good men in the world anymore and that she is preparing her self to be alone for the rest of her life. From the type of person she is, I would be willing to tell her the same thing. Prepare to be alone. Many times, women or just people in general want to blame others for their situation in stead of taking full responsibility. This particular young lady is very loud and obnoxious and will jump at the opportunity to fight and argue. The Bible tells us clearly to stay clear of this kind of woman.
People ask me all the time why to I even bother kicking it with her. I just answer, I learn from Jesus. He didn't kick it with people that were just like him. He went around people who needed better examples of love in their life. I feel that is what I represent. I'm not going to just keep telling her to change, but I will use my daily walk to be a witness to her. The Bible shuns loud and quarrelsome women. In today's society, our media highlights those type of women as if its a great thing. It is indeed entertaining to watch The Real House Wives of Atlanta, or watch Real World, or other reality shows that showcase unrulely women, but at the end of the day it is a bad example of how one should carry themselves.
Proverbs 21:19: It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.
I found this last scripture rather funny because it is so true. A man would rather live in uncomfortable conditions than to be around a woman who just argue argue argue. I completely refrain from arguing. I lost a boyfriend in my past due to picking arguements and nagging and always accusing him of something. I learned from that situation right away. Since then, I have had happy relationships and none of them ended on bad notes.
If you are a contentious woman, change your ways. If you are with a contentious woman, break free of her or pray for a change. Until next time...
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